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Hexagram 13 ( Tong Ren )

– Companions / Relationship -

 

 



    Above; heaven the creative
    Below; fire, brightness

    It is the nature of the fire to burn upward into heaven, symbolizing the concept of fellowship or love. The yin line in the second place gives the hexagram its central character, its yielding quality serving to hold together the five yang lines that surround it. This hexagram is the complement of the hexagram 7, (Shi), the Troop of Soldiers. Shi has danger within and obedience surrounding it, the image of the unquestioning army. But Tong Ren is clarity within and strength without, the image of brotherhood held together by its own firmness.

    Fellowship and openness mean success. It is advantageous to cross the great water. Persevering in all things, the Superior Man advances.

    Tong Ren appears in the distant parts of the country indicating progress and success, ‘crossing the great water.’ This symbolizes a great journey of any kind. Someone weak comes to a position of power, taking the centre of the stage and responding fully to the creative power. Such a one may well be known as the beloved. The central yang line in the upper trigram represents the Superior Man, the only one who can comprehend and affect the thinking of all the people.

    Heaven and Fire together symbolize companionship. The Superior Man, accordingly organizes the people and distinguishes things according to their kinds and classes. Heaven moves upward, just as fire does, but it is very different from Fire. As the stars in the sky mark the divisions of time, so human society and all that belongs together must be ordered. Companionship is not just a gathering together of like-minded people; there must be organization of the diversity.

    Relationships flourish when there are no ulterior motives. Discernment and cooperation lead to success. Modest guidance, management or administration brings a willing unity. Persistence brings rewards.

    Line 1

    Companionship begins with those at the gate. No reproach.

    The beginning of union among many different people should occur in the open, where all can see and be seen, and all are on equal footing. They start out as friends, with high hopes and are agreed upon their aims.

    Line 2

    The family bands together. Humiliation.

    Forming factions within the broader brotherhood of man is the first sign of a coming struggle for power. Out of this will come failure and disgrace.

    Line 3

    He hides his weapons in the thicket. Watching from the top of a high hill.

    For three years he does not show himself.
    When factions are formed, no man trusts another. Each plans a secret ambush, hiding his true feelings, spying upon the actions of his fellows. For a long time he waits, hoping to catch his opponents by surprise, but there is no joy in this.

    Line 4

    He climbs upon his battlements for he cannot fight. But good fortune is near.

    The first steps are taken toward reconciliation. The wise man still holds aloof in a place of safety, but he does not make the mistake of attacking those whom he thinks of as his opponents, and soon all will be well.

    Line 5

    Lovers begin by weeping and lamenting but in the end they laugh. The struggles of many bring them together.

    Any association will begin with troubles that may cause grief, but when these have been resolved the companions will find happiness. The troubles endured and overcome by others will serve as example, and the help and understanding will bring them together in due course.

    Line 6

    The beloved is in a distant place. No regrets.

    The companions trust one another, even when they are far apart. But the fact that the beloved is in a distant place means that the association is still not fulfilled; the time of true brotherhood of man has not yet arrived. But there is hope and no occasion for reproach.

    © 1979 Neil Powell

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