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Hexagram 37 ( Jia Ren )

– The Family / Kinship -

 

 



    Above; Wind, gentleness, penetration
    Below; fire, brightness, beauty

    This hexagram represents the strength of the family. The strong yang line at the top represents the father, the strong bottom line, the son. The strong line in the fifth place may also represent the father. The weak yin line in the second place represents the wife. Alternatively, the strong lines in the fifth and third place are two brothers. The weak second and fourth lines their wives. Each individual line possesses the character in accordance with its position.

    It is the woman’s persistence that brings good fortune. Women who cast this hexagram should take it as a favourable omen, but for men it does not have successful significance.

    It is the place of women to keep within. Men stand without. Keeping to their appointed places, men and women act in accordance with the laws of heaven. When the family is in order, then all the social relationships of mankind are also in order. When father, mother, sons and brothers take their proper positions within the structure of the family, when husbands play their proper part and wives are truly wifely, all is well.

    The wind rises from the fire. The words of the Superior Man are full of meaning, his life is constant and endures.

    Line 1

    The family circle is closed and in good order. Regret vanishes.

    The family is a well-defined unit. Every member knows his place.
    From his earliest years each child must be treated with kind and loving firmness so that he learns discipline. If he is allowed to exercise his whims and passions he and his parents will eventually regret the indulgence.

    Line 2

    She should not indulge her whims but attend to the needs of the household. Persistence brings good fortune.

    Although this lines refers directly to the position of the wife in the home, it has much wider application. One who is in a position of service, whether to a single household or to the state, should not follow his own selfish desires, but should devote himself to his proper duties.

    Line 3

    When there are quarrels in the family too much strictness brings regret, nevertheless, good fortune. When children and women mock, disgrace.

    Discipline tempered with tenderness is the best means of preserving concord. Too great severity is to be avoided. Nevertheless, in case of doubt, strictness is to be preferred to indulgence and brings happiness.

    Line 4

    She is the treasure of the house. Great good fortune.

    The fourth line represents the daughter-in-law, who can prove to be the greatest treasure of the family. This verse also refers to any woman of the house who nourishes the family and supervises its economy. The fourth line can also represent the faithful minister of a kingdom.

    Line 5

    He is a king in his own house. Fear not. Good fortune.

    When a husband governs his family as a king governs his kingdom (or conversely) all is well. Ruling justly and kindly, evoking love and banishing fear, he brings prosperity to all.

    Line 6

    His sincerity and confidence bring him honour. Good fortune in the end.

    The man who subjects his actions to constant self-examination will bring good fortune to himself and to all his descendents, earning himself honour and universal acclaim.

    © 1979 Neil Powell

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